No Dick Pic Please

Why has the dick pic gained this much popularity in our time?  How did guys become comfortable sharing them with a total Stranger? This was one of those things that became norm with the intro of the smart phone. The smart phone changed dating as well as so many other things. This is not what people experienced even a decade ago. I get this sense when I speak to people about 10 years older than I am. The thought of getting a dick picture is completely revolting and astounding to them. For me though, although still revolting it has become norm and unsurprising. How many times have I begun a conversation on OKC, Tinder, Match, Bagel meets coffee etc and within a few exchanges I'm asked things like: What are you wearing? Do you like being naughty? Are you ok with something casual?  Can I show you something? (dick pic build up) My eyes are constantly performing eye roll exercises. The moment I'm complimented as being sexy--I have an idea what's coming. Rec...

In 2007, I was newly single and thought to myself,  wow... dating is kind of crazy and I really should write a blog about it.  However,  being the serial Monogamous that I was at the time, I then entered a relationship that lasted 3 years. So that was scratched for a while... Who knew that a decade later ...and 200,000 dick pics later that I'd be saying the same thing. I am a relatively cute,  awesome female on the market for most of 6 years with limited success. I have a brain,  a career,  a big ass, a welcoming smile and a ton of guy friendly interests and yet Mr. Right has evaded my every turn.  These are my stories,  past and present... and I share them because some of the world just doesn't believe me.  A lot of happily married women cannot wrap their brain around dating in these modern times.. where the dick Pic is the standard.. where after a few friendly messages guys ask you what you're wearing and if you mind calling them daddy. F...